Where do I start? I guess I will start with what has changed my whole world recently. I’m going to be a Dad. Wow! This has been quite a journey for us. After nearly five years of false alarms and false pregnancy tests, we had just about given up on having our own children. We began to explore other options, and honestly we were OK with that. We believed God was calling us to adopt. As a matter of fact we had almost had the adoption papers finished and ready to mail off when we found out. We still want to adopt a child in the future, but for now we are going to put those plans on hold and seek God’s guidance for the right time.
God has indeed given us a beautiful surprise. I am amazed, overwhelmed, awestruck, overjoyed, and humbled all at once. Sunday night, September 24th, 2006, is a night that will always be one of those life-altering moments frozen in my mind. I will never forget my wife walking into the living room with a smile on her face and tears in her eyes as she held out 2 different “positive” tests. I remember saying, “No” over and over again as I teared up, not because I was upset, but because I couldn’t believe it. The impossible had suddenly become possible.
Now here I sit, 7 and a half months from the big day, and I can’t help but wonder what it will be like. Holding our baby for the first time. The sleepless nights. The laughter and the tears. Changing diapers. Feeding. Burping. Having a child that is totally dependent on you, and that wants nothing more than to be loved by you. What a day that will be. What a blessing. I’m not worthy of His blessings, but I am so thankful He has made me worthy. What an awesome God we serve.
Psalm 57:9-11
9 I will praise you, O Lord, among the nations;
I will sing of you among the peoples.
10 For great is your love, reaching to the heavens;
your faithfulness reaches to the skies.
11 Be exalted, O God, above the heavens;
let your glory be over all the earth. NIV
October 3, 2006 at 2:02 pm
3 Sons are a heritage from the Lord, children a reward from him. 4 Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are sons born in one’s youth. 5 Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. They will not be put to shame when they contend with their enemies in the gate.
October 3, 2006 at 2:26 pm
Not a bad start! Thank you for being brave enough to tell what is on your heart! I love you!!!
October 3, 2006 at 4:00 pm
Wow. I wasn’t planning on crying at work today. I just realized I will be a great aunt for the first time. I am so thankful that you will be parents soon. This little baby will be greatly blessed!!
Thank you for sharing the start to a whole new adventure. Enjoy each moment!
Love,
Aunt Linda
October 3, 2006 at 6:08 pm
What a beautiful answer to so many prayers. I can’t think of two better parents to raise this little baby!
Meg
October 3, 2006 at 6:57 pm
We’re so happy for you and ang and so proud of both of you. I’m looking forward to reading your blog everyday as the big event draws closer. Can’t wait to meet our new grandbaby!
love y’all lots!
Future Pops
October 3, 2006 at 7:03 pm
I’m so excited for you both! I can’t wait to read more about the baby and see pictures of cute Angie as her belly grows!!
Lindsay Slate
October 3, 2006 at 7:48 pm
Jake, what great news! I’m so happy for you and Angie; I know you will be incredible parents. If only yuor child didn’t have to grow up in such a “Krum-my” place. Seriously, I rejoice with you both in this bit of wonderful news; being a parent is a blessing beyond compare – nothing is quite like seeing those little eyes look into yours with complete trust, or feeling those arms around your neck, or having them crash into your legs as you walk into the door as they scream your name. I’m so thankful that you will experience that.
Also, I look forward to reading through your blog over the coming months.
Deryk Pritchard
October 4, 2006 at 1:06 am
Jake and Angie!!!!
I know you are pumped. Prayers are answered and Lindsay and I will continue to pray throughout the pregnancy. Well, actually for his/her whole life. It starts now. You guys are going to make great parents! Also…your blog is really nice. Keep writing. You inspire me.
Thank you for accepting Christ (1992 or 93?) and then beyond that…living for Him. Look at what God has done in your life! ! !
We love you!
October 5, 2006 at 11:35 pm
Jake and Angie,
Congratulations on the good news. Last I heard, you were looking to adopt. Isn’t it amazing how God works all things together for good? We don’t always understand, but that’s not our place anyway.
I know you will be great parents. May God bless you both, especially, you, Angie! And don’t forget, Jake, that whatever Angie wants or needs she DESERVES over the next 8 or so months! And long after that, too!
Danny
October 9, 2006 at 9:50 pm
Jake and Angie,
This blog is really cool! Jake you are such a great writter.
I am so excieted for the both of you and the new little one. How humbling it is to recieve such a gift and how that little person teaches us so much about ourselves that we never knew until that moment.
Peace be with you,
M. Martin